You might be thinking that toddlers are too young to have chores, but I’m here to tell you that it’s never too early to start implementing chores with your little ones.
I find that the word “chores” comes with a negative connotation, like it’s almost yucky to say. But the definition of chores is “a routine task, especially household ones”. Routines are so, so important for everyone, but for toddlers especially. Routines limit power struggles and bring security for your toddler while allowing them to feel in control. Therefore, routine tasks aka chores are a good thing to start implementing early on.
Chores help teach:
responsibility
life skills
teamwork
respect
work ethic
time management
And they promote family bonding.
Giving your toddler the chance to help with chores helps them feel empowered and increases their self worth and feelings of belonging. Plus, it’s proven that kids love to help and be involved. So while we might be thinking “gross, not another chore” our toddlers are thinking much more positively and are excited to help out!
Circling back to the word “chores”… what if we replaced it with something like “practical life skills” or “everyday functions”. These have the same meaning, just with more words. So instead of feeling like “uhg, I have to do chores now” or “blah, I have to teach my kids how to do chores” think of it as completing everyday tasks and teaching your kids about practical life skills. If your attitude about chores is positive, then chances are your little one’s attitude about chores will be positive as well.
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